7 weeks....al hamdullilah

This week your baby has an amazing growth spurt. At the beginning of this week, your baby is approximately 4 to 5 mm and by the end of the week it has more than doubled to 11 to 13 mm! Your baby weights approximately 0.03 ounces. Most women are ready for the world to know they are pregnant. Even though you have not changed very much yet, it will come soon! You might have gained a small amount of weight by now, but it should only be a couple of pounds at this time. It is not unusual to lose a few pounds or remain the same though. Internally, cervical mucus is thickening and will form a plug in the cervical canal. The plug seals your cervix throughout the pregnancy and it will be expelled prior to delivery when your cervix begins to dilate.

Your baby's leg and arm buds are longer now and they have divided into segments where the hands and feet will be. The hands and feet also have an area where the fingers and toes will begin to form. At this point of your pregnancy, the heart is bulging from the body and it has divided into right and left chambers. The brain's hemispheres are continuing to grow and the air passages into the lungs are visible. Your baby's eyes are beginning to get pigment. The nose is developing and the beginning of the face can be seen. The baby's abdomen is developing quickly and the appendix and pancreas are already present. Your baby's digestive tract is beginning to form and the hindgut is present. The shape of the talk can still be seen, but it will fade in 3 or 4 weeks.



Even pregnant women get sick occasionally. You should not take any medications during pregnancy unless your doctor has approved them first. If a problem does not resolve or you need medication, your caregiver can give you advice on relief options that are safe during pregnancy. Take good care of yourself by eating nutritious foods, exercising lightly, drinking extra water and getting an adequate amount of rest.

Mood swings can be a pain in pregnancy. It could be hormones, or a touch of anxiety at the idea of all the coming responsibility.

The baby's limb buds are growing quickly, and they actually look more like arms and legs, with small separations which will become toes and fingers.

Embryo's hand development in week 7

Hands are developing at an amazing speed this week! Day 48

And this is the hand only 3 days later

Embryo's foot development in week 7 & 8

Your baby's feet are developing at an amazing speed as well. (Day 51)

And this is the foot in week 8 (Day 60)


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Salam Alaykom...
So this is where I am this week.
I feel like having a party after each week I am surviving.... having a baby at 38 yrs old, 12 years after the last one...is a HUGE difference. I have wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy much less energy..and much more tired..and this time I have morning sickness...when with Nick and Sarah..nothing. It's mostly in the evening , though....and I have learned to eat a little throughout the day. Trying to drink a lot more milk.
I sleep as much as possible but only get about 6 hours at night... this is not enough. so I try to catch up on weekends. When I get home from work , I lay down for an hour or so after prayers and shower. The kids have been away at their Dad's for the week, al hamdullilah. My brother has been making supper usually and Adil too.
cravings....not really..but when I want something I want it now lol.
I have been really emotional and short tempered too. This does not help with the relationship with hubby..unfortunelty...May Allah help us both with this. Aslo..it's been hard on Adil to see me sick and can't do much.I know this . Incha'allah he knows I appreciate his patience and realy proud of him as well. been calling him " big Daddy " lol
the fun part of this is that I have 4 close freinds pregnant too, and all of them same weeks as me !!! Imagine that !!
Sisters... you ahve no idea how long I have waited to have a baby...and its happening. Al hamdullilah. I am blessed.

now..off for a nap !!!
ma'salaama

Honey, You're Pregnant ! Part Three

Honey, You're Pregnant! Part 3: What's in a Name?

By Yasser Aboudouma Writer, Civil Engineer - Egypt

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Husbands, you have reached the final stage of the pregnancy marathon! The last three months of pregnancy can be called the months of mass destruction. The pregnant wife will be fond of knowing the baby's gender; you too, of course. She will start shopping for the baby. She will have emotional "alterations" — in some cases, depression! Month Seven (Boy/Girl) Sure, the doctor can tell the baby's gender. It is common in Egypt that most families dream that the first baby is a boy, which means your wife will dream of that too Wife: That doctor is really weird. She is telling us "may be a boy, may be a girl." What does she mean that the baby can be a girl? I want a baby boy, and all my friends and family are prepared for that. If we had gone to a male doctor from the beginning, he would have told us, easily, whether the baby is a girl or a boy. Wife: Huh! I need to think about baby girl names. What you do think? Layla, Dalia, or Du`aa'? or let's call her after my close friend. You know, I want her name to be unique — something that combines Arab, Egyptian, Western, Islamic, and Pharaonic cultures all in one name! Husband: (teasing her) Don't worry about the name. we'll give her the name "Saffron." I'll complete all the official paperwork before you leave the operation room after delivery. Wife: WHAT? Saf … what? No, please. Let me choose her name. I want to name her after my mom, your mom, or your sister — just don't choose that name. Of course, the name choice argument will give you some power to control her mood, but remember, don't use it too much ; otherwise, you will find yourself flying out of the window! Month Eight (Clothes) Various researches describe this month in different ways, but they all agree that the pregnant woman wants to buy the entire world for her baby. She will feel jealous if she knows or hears about other mothers buying something for their babies, and she will do her best to buy the same or better. You as a husband have to accept that and get prepared to spend your savings on it. Husbands, never ever dream of saying "no" or complaining if she asks for baby shopping. Wife: My colleague came to work with her baby today, and the baby wore a very sweet, pretty outfit that made her look like a princess. In the evening, I'll go shopping. Husband: OK! We can shop at the weekend. Wife: Thank you, honey. I knew you would agree, so today I bought fancy brand-name clothes for her from that famous store. Our daughter must get the best! Husband: I thought we were going to do the shopping together. Wife: Don't worry. There's still a lot to buy. Hey, see this is a shampoo for the baby when she sleeps and that shampoo is for when she wakes up. These are diapers from the US, and this is a brush for her hair. Husband: WHAT? Shampoo for what? How do you know that the baby wants to sleep or not to and how to decide ahead of time which shampoo to use? You might bathe her with shampoo used for waking up and then she will want to sleep… oh yes, then you'll wake her up quickly and give her a shower with the right shampoo? Who told you that the baby will be born with hair; as I understand it, a lot of babies are born without any hair, so that hairbrush is useless. In addition, why did you buy diapers made in the US? What's wrong with the ones made in Egypt? It's just a diaper, not a fancy thing! Wife: Arrrgh! Don't worry, babies know the right shampoo! She'll sense which is the correct one and then act accordingly; that's what's written on the bottle. And I got the US-made diapers because I want my daughter to feel unique. Anyway, I bought three towels for the baby, one to use after shower, the second to dry her as the first one will be wet, and the third to cover her the second we are sure she is properly dried. Also, I got her hair clips, skin cream — one for night and the other for the morning, three pair of shoes, socks, underwear, and four dresses. Husband: Are you sure you're shopping for a baby, not a girl who is getting ready for marriage?! By the way, did you buy her a make-up box? There's something especially for babies. You have to run to buy it now, and don't forget the baby's teeth brush, too! . Wife: Oh my God! You're right, I really forgot that. I'll arrange with my mom and sister to go out with me to complete my shopping. Wife: By the way, you have to be more careful; my close friend told me that anger and nervousness are not good for pregnancy. Today at the meeting, all my colleagues were perfectly behaved; once any one just thought about arguing with me, I told them that I was in the eighth month and the baby would be delivered prematurely if I argue! There were no arguments, and the meeting ended in 10 minutes! Husband: I think you'll get fired soon. Days pass slowly, and the pregnant wife returns home with many things she bought from different stores. The husband gets used to seeing his wife sitting on the floor and spreading all the baby's stuff around her to check, kiss, hug them and find out what is missing! Month Nine Husbands, congratulations! You're in the ninth month. You have waited eight months to reach that final month. You controlled your temper throughout, you worked and helped with the housework, And you are tired; you deserve some relaxation. The pregnant wife knows that the time of her being spoiled will end; finally, she will be responsible for a baby, so she will start acting as poorly, trying to show you that she is weak and powerless. Do understand that she is worried about delivering her baby — it is her first time, and she knows virtually nothing about giving birth. So you will have to –be, even more, patient! Wife: Honey, I feel sorry for you! The past eight months have been very hard for you. I rarely cooked and you stopped eating dinner, while your breakfast was just a cake; you lost 20 kg. I have to cook today. I'll make a surprise for you. I'll boil some eggs and prepare white cheese, but would you please prepare the salad for us?! Husband: … . Wife: Do you think I'll deliver the baby naturally or will there be a C-section? You know, most of my pregnant friends had a cesarean. Maybe my doctor will deliver it naturally as she is a female doctor. Husband: Ah yep, but the doctor's gender doesn't affect the type of delivery. Wife: Anyway, I prepared two suite cases for the baby and me. A natural phenomenon: All pregnant women become nice and kind to their husbands just a few days before giving birth. So be careful, because that kindness will turn into Hell if you were at work while she starts labor. Wife: OHHH, HELP! Mom, dFatherad, Brother, Sister, Uncles, Aunts, United Nations, Egyptian people, the Universe, … any one! Help me, I'm in pain.the baby! Wife: (addressing her husband) Honey, I'm in pain, tell that doctor to give me any painkiller. I can't handle it any more. I feel weak. Promise me if anything happens to me, never ever get married again! Don't give our baby a stepmother. Please, promise me! Husband: You'll be fine, and everything will be OK. It happens to all women; you're not the first one. Just a few minutes from now, and you'll hold in your arms a sweet baby girl. Wife: Did you bring a video camera with you? Don't take any shots from my left-hand side; my right side is more photogenic! Choose good angles for the shots, I want to look pretty in the video. Take shots while I'm not screaming and before my face appears in the video screen, just tell me to smile. Husband: We're recording the birth of our baby, not making a movie! You'll be in the operation room, and you won't care about anything of that sort. Wife: Labor hurts. I'm crazy and stupid; I don't want to get pregnant again. This is the first and last time. If anyone had told me about that pain, I would've never thought about marriage. A big scream from the pregnant woman calls for the baby to come out and get introduced into this world to join the mother's community. Wife: Honey, what is the gender of the baby? Husband: What? The baby is a girl. We knew that a long time ago. Wife: Yipeeee… I thought the doctor would change her mind. Is she pretty? He: (Teasing her) Who, the doctor? Yes, very. Wife: No, silly! I mean the baby. Husband: Oh! yes, she's very, very pretty. Wife: OK, next time we'll have a baby boy. Now tell them I want to hold her. Husband: (in amazement) Next time? You just said … You were … What happened? Women! Women! Women! Husbands, don't worry. Pregnant women are all like that — in a state of confusion and amazement. And they will continue to be like that until the last second of their lives. Congratulations!

Honey, You're Pregnant ! Part Two

Honey, You're Pregnant! Part 2: Watch Out, She's Moody!

By Yasser Aboudouma Writer, Civil Engineer - Egypt

Part 1: What Honey, You're Pregnant! * * *

The first three months represented one-sided arguments, morning sickness, and food cravings. The following three months of pregnancy are like a walking through a minefield, with more one-sided arguments and weight gain. The husband has to expect a lot of warning messages that reflect the pregnant wife's mood, not helped by the fact that she has a career. Month Four Wife: See? As I told you before, you have to stop defending them. Husband: What happened? Wife: The meeting today! The attendees have not given me my prestige even though they knew about my pregnancy. Wife: Imagine, once I entered the meeting room, just five people stood up, and the others didn't care. Husband: WHAT! You had the chance to choose between five seats! Wife: NO, all people have to stand up and let me choose where I want to sit. Wife: I'll ask the manager to limit the meeting for three to four people max.; a congested room is not good for my pregnancy. Husband: Why do you bother? You know, why don't you ask him to cancel all meetings! Wife: Poor me, you're always mean to me. Even one girl felt sorry for me and let me sit beside the window, and she opened the door too! Husband: That's not fair for them. Wife: What! You're worried about them and not me? Men! At this stage of pregnancy, all husbands have to learn how to control their temper and be patient. A little piece of advice for husbands: Don't try to get involved in any arguments with your lovely, pregnant wife! It's useless, as the argument will end with accusations as if you're the reason for all the destruction and wars in the world! You have to learn that if speech is silver, then silence is solid gold. Month Five . The fifth month means a lot of activity, so don't be surprised if your wife starts to become more active and looks for extra work to do. As the baby starts growing, the pregnant wife starts getting less sleep and, normally, she won't accept that you sleep while she doesn't! Husbands, don't be scared when your wife wakes you up in the middle of the night with a certain look on her face. In fact, the look is telling you something. Wife:HURRY! Wake up! Husband: What is it? What's wrong? Are you sick? Did you hear something? Did someone call? Is there a thief in the house? Is there a fire in the neighborhood? Wife: No, nothing like that! I just wanted to tell you that I felt the baby move. Husband: (horrified) WHAAAAAT! You woke me up at — what time is it? – 3 a.m. to tell me that! I have to go to work early tomorrow morning, and I can feel the baby in the morning. Wife: (looking hurt) You don't like me or our baby. I thought you'd like to share with me these moments. Husband: OK, OK, let me feel the baby. You can spend the rest of the night waiting to feel the baby move, which never happens! It's normal. Simply, say you can feel it and make your life easier. The pregnant wife normally feels that she needs care and attention, so be ready to expect any weird request, at any time! Husband: Honey, I'll take a nap until the food is ready. Wife: WHAT! You want to go and rest while I stand in the kitchen preparing food instead of coming to give me a hand? OK, your highness! Where is the UN, human rights organizations, and gender equity rules? Husband: OK, OK, I'm coming. I'll give you a hand; sorry. Of course, your help will start by washing the raw vegetables, and you'll end up preparing everything while your pregnant wife takes her nap! Wife: Honey, you can leave the dishes and I'll put them in the dishwasher after I take a nap, but if you insist, it's OK. Husband: (vexed) OK, honey, I'll put them. . Wife: Fine. Could you bring a glass of water with you. If you prepare tea for yourself, don't forget my cup. Husband: Ummm, but you said you'll take a nap! Wife: Yeah, I will after I drink my tea. While you're waiting for the water to boil for the tea, please put the clothes in the washing machine. Plus, there are clothes that need to be folded. Can you do it? I'm very tired. To all husbands: Be careful of that word, "honey." It's usually followed by "do that" or "don't do that"! Month Six With the sixth month comes the weight gain — around 15 kg in the beginning! The pregnant wife is forced to replace her normal clothes with larger sizes. She starts feeling the baby move, and gets disappointed with what she is beginning to look like. Wife: Why are you smiling like that? Haven't you seen a pregnant woman gaining weight before? Husband: (trying to hold down his laughter) Of course not. You look the same, but why do you walk like that? Wife: I'm pregnant; have you forgotten or what? Husbands, don't expect the lady you married to remain the same girl who likes to share in your thoughts and/or lie difficulties. Their focus changes, and as pregnant women they always like to talk about the pregnancy, and they don't intend or desire to talk about anything else. Wife: I read online that in the West pregnant women deliver their babies without anesthetics, and sometimes it happens when they're sitting or swimming in a pool. I'll check with my doctor to see about the possibility of doing the same. Husband: Honey, you're still in your sixth month, and remember that you're in Egypt, not in the West. Tell me first, do you spend all your working day searching for information about pregnancy on the Net? Sweetheart, I tell you what, let's forget about that now, I need to eat. Wife: I'll prepare something special today. Just go and sit in front of the TV until I finish. (A couple of hours pass.) . Husband:Honey, where's the food? Wife: It's not ready yet, it's only 10 p.m., why are you in a hurry? Husband: Honey, you think 10 p.m. is still early? Let's eat anything, even some cheese. Wife: (now mad) You're a typical Middle Eastern man; there's no appreciation whatsoever for my effort! Just for your information, my close friend never cooked anything throughout her pregnancy and up until four months after she delivered the baby. Husband: So what did they eat for the year? Wife: (in a low voice) Her husband was out of the country for a year, and she stayed at her parents' house. A wise man once said that parents who failed to raise their son properly shouldn't worry, the wife will certainly do the job!

Yasser Aboudouma is an Egyptian-Canadian who lives between Cairo and Ontario. He holds a B.Sc. in engineering and a diploma in project management. He is interested in issues of social and cultural differences and can be reached at yasser_aboudouma@yahoo.ca.

What? Honey, You're Pregnant !! Part One

What Honey, You're Pregnant! (Part 1)

By Yasser Aboudouma Writer, Civil Engineer - Egypt

There are common arguments, especially in Egypt, that are repeated daily between each husband and his lovely and adorable wife, who by the way is pregnant for the first time!

Usually, the story begins when the wife suspects that she is pregnant. She runs to the nearest lab for a pregnancy test, and once she is confirmed pregnant, all her life is changed and her husband's life is pushed to the edge, or more pointedly, to the verge of collapse. "I have to see a good doctor," the wife says. "But, your doctor is good and she has a good reputation," replies the husband. With the start of a period of pregnancy, there are a lot of requests, orders, and special considerations, and the poor husband has to listen and obey, because her majesty is going through her first pregnancy! * * * First Month Wife: I want to see a male doctor like all my girlfriends. My doctor is old and boring. Husband: Honey, you are veiled, and there is no necessity to visit a male doctor; and whether your doctor is old or young, what matters is her experience and qualifications. If you don't feel comfortable with your doctor, we can look for another female doctor. Wife: NO! I know that females are not that experienced in medicine. Husband: (mumbling) In everything, not only medicine! The arguments continue till the husband succeeds in convincing his wife that another female doctor would be good, especially that she is a little younger than the previous doctor. But, the wife is still unhappy as the new doctor does not have the latest high technology of ultrasonography. Wife: See! This doctor also failed to show me the baby. Husband: Honey, you are still in your first month, there is no baby to see. Wife: My friend's doctor showed her the baby in her first month, and the baby was moving, plus she could hear his heartbeat. Husband: Oh yeah! And the baby was walking too, right! In the first month, the baby looks like a dot. As usual, that argument ends with going to one of the private hospitals where there are the latest medical equipment. At the hospital, the doctor explains to the wife that there is no way any instrument can show a baby, its movement, or its heartbeat, as the baby is not big enough. Finally, they quietly return back home and the wife realizes that she has to wait. * * * Second Month The second month of pregnancy means nausea and cravings for certain foods. Hormones start to increase rapidly, which affects the pregnant woman's behavior with her husband and her colleagues at work. Be careful if you have pregnant women at your company and/or office. Wife: Honey, I have a craving for watermelon with no seeds. Husband: I have never heard of that! Watermelon with no seeds! Wife: That's not my concern. I crave for it and I want it. Do you want our baby to be born with a birthmark? Wife: I think my tummy is a little bigger than normal. I believe I have twins! Husband: No, your tummy is still the same, and the doctor told us that you have a single baby, not twins. Wife: So! Maybe the doctor could not see him. Day after day, this kind of dialogue goes on and on, especially when the wife goes to work. Expect your pregnant wife to return from work in a bad mood, nervous, and quite, quite mad because … Wife: (nervously) I have to quit work. I will give them my resignation tomorrow. . I can't handle work and all the people there. It's OVER! Husband: What happened? Wife: Imagine. At the weekly meeting, my manager suggested something that should be done. I told him that I don't think it's beneficial to work. He kept arguing with me, and he wasn't convinced by what I said. Husband: That's normal. He is your boss, and he has a right to argue with you about work. Wife: Men, men, men! You are one of them, and all men are the same - sure you'll defend him. No, he has no right to do so and no right to argue with me; he meant to irritate me. All of the men in the meeting, and the world, have to take a one-way trip to Iraq, and I'm ready to pay for the tickets! Wife: Also, that girl in the meeting, instead of supporting me and taking my side, she supported him and made more suggestions that I have to implement. Husband: Honey, it's normal; that girl is your close friend and she has always been kind to you. Wife: NO! It's not normal. They have to know that I'm pregnant and my increasing hormones affect my mood, so they shouldn't argue with me at all! Husband: Sweetheart, let's forget all about work - what do we have for dinner today? Wife: (In a very shy, soft, and passive voice) Honey, do you want something to eat today? I was nervous today and needed to rest because I was worried about the baby. But there's a tin of tuna in the kitchen. Husband: What! You will not join me for dinner? Wife: No. When I had finished the meeting, I returned to my office and ordered some food to help me relax. Days will pass, and life will crawl along slowly until "this woman" reaches her third month of pregnancy. * * * Third Month In this month, the pregnant wife is assured that she has a single baby. Hormones increase rapidly, which affect the routine of her life and make her feel lazy and sleepy most of the time. She will be curious to see the baby each and every day, and she will want to trace its growth accordingly. Wife: Yesterday, the doctor didn't show me the baby well. The baby's hand didn't show up clearly. Husband: Don't worry. The doctor and I saw the baby, and it looked really great. Wife: I'm not asking for what you and the doctor did or didn't see! I have to re-visit the doctor next week, and I'll ask her to show me the baby. Husband: She arranged the next appointment for next month, not next week. Wife: No problem. She won't remember, and my friend told me that her doctor had ultrasound and showed her the baby on a weekly basis. Husband: Honey, your friend is in her sixth month, while you are in your third. Wife: Arrrrrgh! Stop arguing with me. You are just like my colleagues at work; useless! Or the dialogue may go back to the size of the wife's "tummy"! Wife: Honey, I think my tummy is starting to get bigger. Husband: No dear, I think it is still the normal size. Wife: You see, my pregnant friends told me so. They also told me that in the third month my tummy starts to get bigger. Plus, I'll feel the baby's movement and I'll hear his heartbeats too. Arguments, arguments, arguments; your life will be all about arguments with your sweet, pregnant wife! You have to be patient and quiet, and you must support her, even if she surprises you by trying to manipulate everything for her own benefit. Wife: Honey, I want to eat something. Husband: What's that, sweetheart? We can have it delivered here. Wife: I wish to eat at that restaurant we went to on the day we got married. Husband: Yeah, but it's far away from here and previously you complained that you get tired from being in the car, especially for long distances. Wife: No, no. If we go to that restaurant, I won't feel tired. Husband: OK honey, we'll go this weekend. Wife: No, I want to go today, NOW - otherwise, the baby will be born with a birthmark! as I crave eating in that restaurant. Husband: Sweetheart, I understand that pregnant women crave for certain kinds of food, not certain kinds of restaurant! Wife: Have you ever been pregnant? How would you know about cravings? This is my desire. Of course, these arguments end in one direction only, the pregnant wife's direction; and the husband has to admit that he will lose his case to his wife, who represents the half of society, whom we call weak!

Yasser Aboudouma is an Egyptian-Canadian who lives between Cairo and Ontario. He holds a B.Sc. in engineering and a diploma in project management. He is interested in issues of social and cultural differences and can be reached at yasser_aboudouma@yahoo.ca.

1st blog.....

Salam Alaykom,

Hi ! I'm Anisah. I converted in 2004....and had some struggles. Eventually in 2006, I repented completely and was rewarded with marriage to a wonderful Moroccan man. Masha'allah. We got married in Morocco on September 8th, 2006. He Only arrived here in Canada May 23rd, 2008. LONG WAIT!!! but al hamdullilah.

I am blessed with 2 wonderful children from a previous relationship ( before Islam was a part of my life ) , Nick , who is 14 and Sarah, who is 11. They are what have kept me going in this world and inspried me to hang in there. They really are the two best kids anyone could ever ask for.Masha'allah. Both are my heros. Sarah was born with Juvenile Rhumatoid Arthitis. She has been in pain all her life. had to go through physcial Therapy, wearing braces, strong meds...and lots of tests and one surgery. She never ever complains and she smiles and is blessed with a healing touch, Masha'allah. Nick... he is the compassion one that takes care of us all including his friends and anyone that is less fortunate than he is. When he was in grade one he packed a bad of his things to take to school. I asked why he did this. He was going to give it to a child who had holes in their clothes and did not have new clothes. Or ..when I had to inflict pain on his sister for her physcial therapy, he would play his guitar to distract her and would cry along with her. Al hamdullilah for them.

Thelatest thing in my life.. well our lives..is a new addition. I am pregnant !!! I am 38 yrs old now..and , yeap..gonna have a baby!! I'ts important to me that my husband feels the joy of holding his own flesh and blood in his arms. There really is no feeling better than that. It is truly a miracle and blessing from Allah (subhana wa ta'ala). Right now I am 6 weeks along..I think... not comfirmed yet though.

This is my first blog here. Like every other blog I have done, it has all been inspired by my dear sister in Islam, Ammena :) May Allah bless her always for her good intentions and her special way of encouraging those around her in the deen. Masha'allah :)

What I like about this Blogger thing is that there is no stupid drama. It has an intelligent format and the people who seems to write here have something important to share rather than pick at others. Al hamdullilah.

I am not sure yet, what kind of blog this will be about..... probably a mix of things and whatever tickles my fancy or that I have to get out. ( pregnant women need an outlet lol, especially one married to a north-africain !) or maybe even just recepies or Islamic info I want to share. What i like about this blog too, is that it's not blocked at work like the others I have joined in the past lol

Hope you enjoy and visit often incha'allah :)